Breastfeeding and the father

Breastfeeding is such a wonderful experience for both mother and child. But in this beautifully complementary duo, it can seem as though someone is missing from the picture… Indeed, breastfeeding and the father can feel like strangers to one another. So, whilst it is true that a father cannot replace the mother in her role as nurturer, he can absolutely take part in this wonderful journey! We talk about it in this article!

Breastfeeding and the father: how to embrace this new role and find your place?

"Breastfeeding dads" are becoming ever more numerous! These are fathers who want — and need — to embrace their new role wholeheartedly. Feeling included is not optional, and it takes effort from both the father… and the mother! Indeed, it is impossible for the father to take the mother's place in breastfeeding. At least, when it comes to exclusive breastfeeding. That said, in the case of mixed feeding where bottles are introduced, the father can take charge of feeding the baby! But what about finding his place when breastfeeding is fully exclusive?

Ways to build a bridge between breastfeeding and the father

A bridge built on love, kindness, patience, and mutual support. That is how new parents can find a balance in their respective roles! The dad can take a more active role with the baby during nappy changes, bath time, or even by giving little massages. He can also help his partner with everyday tasks, do the shopping, and take care of the housework. But above all, he can be a source of psychological and physical support for her, because breastfeeding is an experience as beautiful as it is demanding! Finally, it is important to note that the mother needs to learn to delegate and to trust her partner. Things may not always be done exactly the way she would like, but does that really matter, in the grand scheme of things? Learn to let go, and to savour every moment of this magnificent experience that is breastfeeding! And as a family, of course!