My child is dry during the day but not at night

Ah, the joys of diapers… just when you think you've finally got past them, there are still more! If, like other parents, you're going through the "My child is dry during the day but not at night" phase, then welcome to the club. But it's definitely not a club for defeatists!

With a little kindness, a touch of explanation, and a great deal of patience, we'll get there! The Maman et Bébé Nature team says so!

My child is dry during the day but not at night: what's the problem?

If there even is one, that is! Besides, we talk about being toilet-trained, but it would be more accurate to talk about developing independence. Because a child who uses their diaper is not, in fact, dirty! Well, let's not get sidetracked.

First of all, and this should reassure more than a few people, before the age of 6 we don't really talk about a genuine difficulty. So if your child is taking a little longer to make the switch from diaper to underwear, there is genuinely no need to worry.

Furthermore, on average, this notion of being "toilet-trained" can take between 6 months and a year to fully develop.

What could the causes be?

Before the age of 6, it can simply be put down to a physical development that is taking its time. As a result, a child who cannot hold on through the night is quite simply, physiologically, not yet ready!

They will not yet have the reflex to wake up to relieve themselves, particularly when they are in a phase of deep sleep.

How can I help my child who is dry during the day but not at night?

As always, with lots of love, kindness, and patience. Do encourage them when their diaper is dry in the morning! And conversely, do not tell them off when they have wet their diaper, even after several consecutive dry nights.

It is also important to talk to them about it, explaining that they can get up in the night when they need the loo. And of course, to wake up and go with them. We know — that's the part you love best about all this!

Finally, you can limit drinks two hours before putting your child to bed, to reduce the chances of accidents. And, of course, offer the potty or toilet just before bedtime.

So, super parents — what are your techniques for getting your child out of diapers?